So I have tried to send a pm.

My outbox says...

Outbox(1)

And I can see it there. The implication is that it is not sent. So stupid question. How do I get it sent?

I think it stays like that until it's Read.

Have you tried smacking it a few times. Don't use a metal hammer as I assume the screen is glass. Rubber mallet should work well and if you smack it just right, the (1) should disappear a little.

Yep, it is sent but won't go from your box until read by the other side.

Thanks