Bearbonesnorm wrote:
not really enjoying what you're eating, which means maintaining it will be extra hard and will very quickly feel like a chore. For it to work, it needs to feel completely normal and certainly not like any kind of 'diet' ... this isn't short term, it's for the rest of your life.
Completely agree with the above...
I am not on a diet and the whole point of this Fat fighters thing was light hearted way for all of us to share in the highs and lows of making
permanent changes to our lifestyles. I for one am not going to stop eating pizza or potato's, I am just not going to eat vast amounts of it (like I have for years and years).
All I am doing is cutting the size of the meals I am eating, not snacking in between (so much), thinking more about having food in the house and not "oh well takeaway tonight, as we have nothing in" etc. Eating less will reduce the calorific intake and that's what I feel I need, less energy in and help restore the energy in = energy out balance.
We are all different and should all have different ways in getting to our end ambition/targets/goals. Just remember, being happy with what you are doing, its meant to be stress free.
This is why I only weigh in every 2 weeks, not every day or week but every 2 weeks. If i go up, then i go up, down is always a bonus but as I said for the outset, change was overdue and I need to restore the balance in my eating habits. No food will be off limits, no ratio of food will be off limits (no giving up carbs for me), no calories will be off limits (pudding, don't mind if i do). The only thing i am proactively doing is avoiding "red label foods" i.e. red for high fat, high sugar etc on processed foods and sugar filled drinks (fizzy water for me please).
BUT and this is the important bit for me,
I will not be eating a whole family size pork pie in one go or the whole order of sweet n sour chicken and chips, a 14" pizza, half the apple pie etc.
I am often referred to (and i often refer to myself) as a Labrador dog, can't refuse food, especially if it is free or if I have paid for it in a restaurant (brought up having to clear plate... oh the 70's...). Great when young, useless in middle age!
i now realize i don't have to eat everything, I don't have to bolt down my food and eat the whole takeaway in one sitting.
This is tough in many ways, we all know its going to be tough - hence my putting it out to others as I am sure there will be hard times ahead for all. Mutual support i suppose.
What am i saying... I don't really know, I can't offer words of encouragement as these are already within us all, we know deep down inside we can do this, trust the force and don't fight it, fighting the force will only lead to the dark side...