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Hello Ben,Nobody has been mean to me because of my sexuality, I have never wished to be different, but there are small things other people could do at no cost to them that would take away almost all of the negative aspects of being ace. Accepting people are different is massive. Complaining about lack of representation in the media, as is true for pretty much every minority ever, once you see it you cannot unsee it. Be tactful in your questions, feeling invisible then having to justify your existence is messy. Don’t say “oh you will grow out of it” “You just haven’t found the right person yet”, even in the edge cases this may be true, you are completely invalidating that person with those comments. Just be nice.
Ah - wetsuits are a bad idea as it takes so long getting out of them and getting dry that you cool down too much. With a swimsuit, it's straight out of the water and into the Dryrobe. Neoprene socks and gloves are pretty much mandatory. Neoprene skull cap too if you're going to get your head wet (otherwise, the woolly hat seems to be de rigueur)Bearbonesnorm wrote: ↑Sun Feb 23, 2020 7:49 pm I take my hat off to your good lady and her friends Colin. None of yer namby pamby wetsuit nonsense for them girls![]()
I think you've just set a new milestone that even The Cyclist that went out in the Cold (Tim Moore) would be proud of...
I didn't really believe myself when I said this, but had made up my mind, it holds true in buckets and barrelsbenconnolli wrote: ↑Fri Feb 21, 2020 7:50 pm ...scary things are sometimes necessary, and they are rarely as scary as being scared of them was.
Progress report.....:left hand guy attachment point is still attached to guy ropeBigdummySteve wrote: ↑Fri Feb 28, 2020 10:20 pm Live bam in progress! After a rather ‘interesting’ ride across Dartmoor I’m currently in residency at Foggintor quarry......it’s rather fresh. Large rocks on all pegs and hope for the best.
PS if you don’t hear form me let the records show that BDS completed a run of 38 bams and even on a night such as this was not swayed by the offer of a £15 bunkhouse![]()